Ashley Rhodes-Courter
- Child Welfare Activist
- New York Times Bestselling Author
- Teresa A. Sievers, MD, MSMS, FAARM, ABAARM
- Publishers Weekly
"The author’s ability to form intelligent, open"
-Publishers WeeklyBorn in 1985 to a single teen mother, Ashley was in the foster care system by the age of 3. Most of her placements were abusive and overcrowded. In one home, 16 people lived in a trailer and the children were regularly beaten, neglected, verbally assaulted, and food was withheld. Another foster parent became a convicted pedophile. She was also placed with an alcoholic relative that was shot twice in front of her.
After spending almost ten years in foster care, living in 14 different homes, Ashley was finally adopted from a Children’s Home when she was twelve. Ashley is now inspired to use her story to better the lives of others. She doesn’t see herself as a victim but instead, understands the importance of praising those that step up to help others, turning pain into power, and encouraging others to create change for themselves and others. It only takes one person to change the life of another and her story serves as a passionate example of triumph and inspiration.
Instead of letting my past experiences cripple me, I was able to put a positive spin on my experiences." A negative force can give someone a rallying point and lead them not only find solutions to their dilemma but provide a new path to happiness. Productivity, contentment, and success are just a mindset away. Finding opportunities for growth and learning are keys to enhancing professional and personal lives and relationships.
Ashley attributes education as the cornerstone of her success. "I was lucky enough to have teachers who took a special interest in me—an uncertain foster child—and nurtured me in the classroom where I felt safe. They made me feel special, talented, and encouraged me to continue to excel academically. They also called in abuse complaints and tried to protect me—even when they were ignored many times. One anonymous one probably saved my life." In this lecture, Ashley talks about the importance of recognizing strengths, engaging students and youth, and reminds us that school may be the only sanctuary some children have. Ashley gives us a unique glimpse into the lives of children that may have abusive or troubled home lives, and discusses how that can translate in the classroom.
It takes only one person to change a life. We all know someone who has been neglected, abused, impoverished, ill, in foster care, is medically fragile, or has a special need. Heroes can be a foster parent, teacher, nurse, mentor, CASA, relative, pastor, peer, neighbor, counselor, community member, business owner, or friend. “Several people reached out to me and can be credited not only for my success, but my survival–and one was an unpaid volunteer.” Sometimes, the biggest impact is being made when you’re not even trying!


